Thursday, 8 May 2014

MONEY AND THE LOVE OF A WOMAN



Alibaba Reveals

Nowadays,more women love based on the size of a man’s pocket.Most men feel they aren't financially fit enough to approach the kind of girls they would have loved to date. Guys go to the choicest places to come across all kinds of girls. Sometimes, i take a walk with my friends to the mall in search for babes because we always find lots of girls there and i discover there's always one or two of them who have a problem approaching the opposite sex. This is either because they feel she looks intimidating, too sophisticated, too sexy or too classy. I then came to realize that no matter how daring a chic may look,if a man is up to the task,he'll go for her without giving it a second thought. Read Ali Baba's take below:
It’s important you have something doing. You can not be waiting for something to do. Do anything. DO NOT WAIT FOR WHAT YOU WANT TO DO. It has been proven time without number, that a woman respects a man who provides more than she respects a man that can not provide.
There are huge differences between a man that can not provide /a man who can provide and a man who can provide but does not want to provide. You may fall into any of these categories. But if it’s the right one well done. If it’s not, hey!!!! Brotherly, there is work to be done.Forget anything anybody tells you, 50% of why many marriages survive, besides the core ingredients of love, respect, understanding and sex… Is PROVISION.The struggle we get involved in everyday, is just so we can provide. Like my friend, Zakiloooo always says, NA OUR WIVES AND CHILDREN ALL THESE STRUGGLE DEY FOR. Because, he would explain further… We for just begin grooooove enter Ghana, Kenya, JohannesBurg, UK, Dubai…We must know that, if we make 25K, family must get 10K, 5K goes back into the business, savings go hold 5K and we will use the last 5k to hold our side for in case of incasity and other cases of should in case! Zakilo!!!!! God no dey sleep.
So, my guys, no just SIDDON. Get up. Find something to do. At all at all na him bad pass. One of my guys in Warri was dropped by GTB in the last retrenchment when the new management took over, he said he waited for a bit (5months) when it looked like all those job offers were not coming like when he was employed, he had to do something. He started diesel supply.Now, he says, the respect as the head of the house is beginning to come back. He also says, men who say,''it does not matter if your wife is earning more than you do'' are being economical with the truth. Your ability to provide MATTERS A GREAT DEAL.
So guys, lets get busy. The holy book says 'a poor man is despised even of his own neighbors'. Even if it’s a stop gap job. Just do it. Not for you. But for the family. I know some will say, it’s easy for you to say. Dupe ti re!! No it’s not.
We need to groom the next generation of men who believe in dignity of labor, recognize that we are providers, head of the home, protector of the HONOR of the family and THE MAN. So get to work. GBAM!!

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